The Modern Players Dilemma

Any man who’s had this misfortune of enduring the dating/sexual market today and in the past few years will have encountered the steady decline of quality women out there looking to hook-up (many claim they aren’t looking for relationships anymore, oh so independent) – a decline from an already less than stellar and decreasing in femininity. A whole subsection of society has been created out of this in the interwebs, dedicated to teach men how to bang women, from guys who have learned how to bang women. Some of these men who are learning still want a relationship with women, others have given up, only because in their encounters, they haven’t met any girl feminine and pretty enough to actually start dating, at least giving them any type of real commitment.

And who could blame them? There are increasing risks from snippy feminists and empowered girls acting bitchy because our society now says it’s okay with girls acting any way they want without any consequences – risks that include, false rape claims on one extreme, to having your date ruined by listening to her talk about how unique she is, or her recent objection over a joke you made that sounds misogynistic and suddenly you’re on the end of some lame attempt at a social scolding from some chick you just met who starts looking more and more like a lesbian/feminist meme as she craws on about some perceived injustice. I sometimes wonder why we guys even participate in this dating world.

Thank god for the sluts, the girls just wanting to have fun and have sex, for the sexual market place would be a completely worthless endeavor had they not been so utterly easy. Of course dating these girls are out of the question for obvious reasons. The amount of cocks in a girl should decrease your commitment level by 10. That’s 10 years for every cock in her va jay jay.

But I suspect most men at some point still would like to settle down, if things were different. And thus the title of this post, the dilemmas start coming when you do meet sweet, feminine, pleasant, pretty girls that you would have (before your soul has been hardened and eroded) dated these girls. When you meet one, when you start gaming her, do you suddenly regard her as a dying breed? Does she become more precious because of her rarity? Does a player who’s still not interested in relationships still ruin her? Or does he, even not ready, wanting to, keep her around for himself, knowing her dying breed is all but gone?

These answers in the recent past were all to easy to answer. Now with a rare resource as this type of byrd is, is it still just as easy?

5 thoughts on “The Modern Players Dilemma

  1. […] And who could blame them? There are increasing risks from snippy feminists and empowered girls acting bitchy because our society now says it’s okay with girls acting any way they want without any consequences – risks that include, false rape claims on one extreme, to having your date ruined by listening to her talk about how unique she is, or her recent objection over a joke you made that …read more […]

  2. “Thank god for the sluts, the girls just wanting to have fun and have sex, for the sexual market place would be a completely worthless endeavor had they not been so utterly easy.”

    Today’s sluts become tomorrow’s feminists.

  3. The other issue is that when you do end up with one of these quality girls you’re already jaded and pessimistic from seeing what you’ve seen in these other girls. The irony in it all is that the game you require to get one of these “good girls” comes from the experience gained dealing and banging “modern women” making it way harder to actually trust and enjoy the benefits of a sweet and feminine girls.

  4. Something every guy with game has to eventually deal with. Could actually be a good manosphere topic. There’s a lot on relationship game and it’s one thing to have good frame etc but after dealing with some of the girls out there right now it’s really hard to actually relax a bit and enjoy the girl you’re with.

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