Peoples stated desires are not always the things they actually desire. Men are becoming more like woman over the past few generations, and this is one of the greater examples of how men are becoming walking mangina’s. They will say one thing, and their actions reveal something completely different. Men, at least beta men, are stating a desire, but lack any confidence and actual motivation to take action to that desire, which shows the world that this desire is only a paper desire – like they want to tell you this only to cover the fact that they don’t want to actually step up to the plate and talk to girls and approach girls and start learning and doing the things they need to do in order to get a girl. What they are actually saying is this: “I want to live my life exactly the way I am now, and I magically want a girl to just come out of nowhere and fall in love with everything I do, so I don’t have to change.” Sounds familiar doesn’t it? Like every rom-com in Hollywood ever. This is the song of the beta male. I want a girl to like me for me. Kind of sounds like what a chick would say doesn’t it?
Helping these types of men is impossible, unless they can shed the fantasy dwelling day-dreaming, unicorn wishing ways and learn to take responsibility over their lives and it’s successes and failures. Somewhere along the lines, in this feminist world that has taken us over, and our politically correct madness, men took on this abhorrent characteristic of the females of our species, that somehow we too shouldn’t take responsibility for our actions, and our own successes. It’s always someone else’s fault when we fail, and it’s always our narcissistic selves for our success. But the beta male doesn’t believe he needs to work hard for anything, especially chicks. Meh, where’s the motivation? He’s got porn, right?
Then you listen to one of your friends that’s beta, and lame, and like I describe above and he whines and moans about how shitty girls are, and how he just can’t find one he likes, and how picky he really is and that’s the reason he’s still single. These people don’t want to accept that they are the problem and not everything else in the world. The beta male once was a productive class, a middle class man working a decent job, making a decent living, the head of a decent family, and things were pretty much all laid out for him, and in general the beta males of these past decades were better men in general. I suspect the average man in the 40′s would think the average man of modern times with a high suspicion of our modern men being effeminate and gay.
But there is hope, there are some men who begin to see the error of their ways, and they want to learn game, so they seek it out. The struggle will always come, however, to most men who start out in game, they want the same thing as the beta world they came from – is there a magic pill here that will help me get what I want? Again, when they find out there isn’t, you quickly see how much they really desired this. These men and people in general these days, just want and expect everything handed to them, when it isn’t, well everyone sucks. The system sucks, people sucks, girls suck.
What each man needs to do is shed that bullshit and cast it out of them, and just start accepting that a man needs to work towards his goals, and if he works hard enough, perhaps he may achieve some of them, and realize that nothing, nothing in this world will ever be guaranteed to you. These are things are grandfathers and their fathers new. Before mommy took over the reigns of our society. Before we were all attempted to be engineered into chicks.