Let’s forget about the seduction side of game for this post, and focus on building a connection with a lady friend you hope to seduce later in the evening – that first conversation that helps you relate to a girl, rather than the build up to banging.
If you think feminism has degraded talking to chicks in the west with any sort of pleasantry, then you’re only partially correct. Feminism is only around and as popular because of our neutered culture that has embraced full on the politically correct nancy boy stance on anything and everything. Feminism is propped up by political correctness. Each time you act in a politically correct manner in public is an assault on truth, and masculinity and femininity in its pure form.
Let’s say you sit down to talk with some random girl, and you start talking to her, but you want to avoid any feminist topics in order to not trigger a potential feminist insanity rant – so you go to other topics, and you want to see how cool she is, funny, open-minded, etc. basically you want to see how easy it is going to be to just talk and flirt with her and how you’ll need to adjust your seduction side of game. So you make some off-hand remark about people on diet fads, or recycling nuts, or whatever, something lame and clearly a joke, and something no reasonable person should ever actually get offended at. There’s a good chance you might see a nervous smile or laugh, and a brief look out the corner of her eyes, and a fidgeting at your conversation – and that’s if she likes you a lot, or she might start to engage you on some actual moral conversation about these topics because they are important to her, and you then realize you’re on one of those, ah fuck, dates.
To me there is nothing worse than trying to game someone who, one, takes everything way too seriously, and two, cannot act appropriately on a date. That’s social behavior 101, and just because she’s a cute chick shouldn’t give her a pass at basic human interactions. I know what you’re thinking already, oh she’s only doing that because she’s not interested, but trust me, i’ve banged some of these same girls because when I was younger and dumber, and my cock in pussy desire was higher in intensity I could fight past these annoyances. I can no longer do so, and especially cannot do so in normal social situations where I’m not going to get any pussy.
I contest that political correctness, over feminism, or together with feminism more accurately, is why guys don’t grow up with game, or need to turn to blogs and seminars in order to learn how to talk to girls. Our society led by single mothers and feminist friendly social structure has led our young men into a world of just get along, and don’t ruffle any feathers. I believe the younger generation, now 20 and below of men, you’re seeing a bigger extreme in alpha’s and beta’s. The alpha’s will break almost every convention and lack any real empathy, and the beta’s now fall in line with a watered down social interaction that ban’s almost all topics because no one wants to offend anyone. In order to unlearn all this, those men come to blogs of the red pill variety and are awakened to a world where political correctness does not exist.
One of the reasons you are taught in game to have a variety of interests is due to this very social trend – if you really want the bang, and you don’t care about a relationship afterwards, you will need to lead the conversation away from tricky subjects that can derail any path that will ultimately lead to flirting and seduction. The more interests you have, the more options you have in this situation in a date, and the more avenues you can take with her, until you find something that can help her relate to you and then go forward.
We may wish this wasn’t the case all we want, but wishing has no place in keeping the gene pool alive, our biology doesn’t give a shit about hopes and dreams and wishes and unicorns – our biology exists in reality. And this unfortunately is our reality now in the dating world.