There is no such thing as not being socially programmed by society. Namely your society you were raised in. Unless you were born in the wilderness and managed to raise yourself with no help from anyone or even wolves, could you say you have not been influenced by society. I say this because the most maddening and overlooked flaw to the gender neutralists and pansy nanny state types, swlp’s and political correct nazi’s are that even their attempts to make things equal and nice, as if it could ever be, is the same thing that they’re trying to hoist up as evil. Social conditioning is evil! Evil! The problem with counter-culture is that it needs the culture to exist. If you were to make everything sterile like some militant people are trying to do, I’m looking at you Sweden… then you would just have a counter-culture that says boys should play with the toys he wants to play with and girls are allowed to pretend to be princesses, and not be tied to the matriarchal decree that boys and girls should play with generic toys that offer nothing to their development, and even stunting their emotional and mental and self-esteem development.
If any of you have had the pleasure of reading through OKcupid profiles, sat through an early date, sat beside at a bar, or stuck in a conversation with one of these female’s that have half-shaved heads, odd colored hair, horn rimmed glasses of some sort, obnoxious tattoo’s, “nontraditional” chicks – then you’ll understand what I’m talking about. Sadly their arguments about a mythical patriarchal boogey man is really at least 20 years too late. Tradition went by the wayside after the hippies moved back into society and realized half the shit they thought was stupid and forgot, yet that hippy generation, early feminism, softened our society over the next few generations, till we get to the part of our world now, that being “normal” is not only a subtle unknowing rebellion or counter-culture, but has started to become conscious and even entrenched in enforcing its relevance to society. Also you will know how stupid they sound, how childishly naïve they speak about how society shaped “your old sexist view points.” – they basically call you evil or stupid because you let society tell you how you should think, when that’s exactly what they are doing as well. They argue and complain, and bitch about the wrong thing, and use their own arguments against themselves. Their logic is flawed. It must be the lack of testosterone that goes into this type of thinking.
Feminism and gender neutralism is a lie, just like everything else in the world was and is, and will be. There is always a society of people who want their ways to be the way things are and pressure the rest of the people in world to behave in a certain way. That’s how societies work. That’s the rub of being human, you can’t escape the fact that you are a product of your environment - and all of this encompasses our environment. Whether you want to pretend you aren’t affected or influenced about it, or not, you still always will be – and your prejudices and beliefs will be because of this environment. It’s ever so ironic, that the irony loving hipsters can’t understand this basic tenet of life.
When ever someone uses the argument or lashes out with accusations like: misogynist! Sexist! etc. They are essentially insulting themselves, for they’re the same thing that they’re attempting to criticizing. You don’t want to be controlled by what you think misogyny wants you to, you want to control how we think. It’s not about being free, as allowing others to think and behave how they want is the definition of freedom, it is about control. And as long as the accusations of a make believe boogey man still is accepted by everyone, the longer we get away of real societal self critique. If you want to look at gender roles, and things we should be changing to better our society, you need to do so with the full understanding of humanity, and we need to understand what is important for a child’s full development, and as long as we’re still arguing like adolescents, I don’t think we’re even close to that yet. If ya think ya got a quick answer for society, I got news for you, you’re wrong.