There’s a certain je ne sais quoi to sexiness, a certain something that’s difficult to pin down and quantify – some girls have it and some girls don’t – some 9-10′s have it, some don’t. It’s a big mind fuck to get the “I want to fuck that girl senseless” with a 7 and not getting that with a 9. It can really mess with a dudes head. Perhaps I’m alone with this, I don’t know.
Now there’s important note here, we’re talking about sexiness and an 8, 9, or 10 trumps any 6 or 7 no matter what she does to us biologically. That being said, there are times I’m with a hot babe, that doesn’t rev my engine as much as a past 7 that makes me wish I was with the 7 for a few hours of porntastic sexual glee. A sexy girl can make you crave her like shooting heroin. A hot girl with limited sexiness makes you feel like a king in all areas, but I personally find them easier to game, and thus that sexy charge lacks.
See being under the spell of a sexy chick makes your testosterone shoot through the roof creating a desire that can rival oneitis – it can be so addicting that all you can think about is banging her – no matter how hard you try, every urge gets amplified. Only in relieving this tension, by banging her can you find momentary peace. But the desire alone can mess up your game.
On the whole, it’s much better to hook up (at least for a long term relationship) with a girl that doesn’t make you lust her every minute of being around her, as you can maintain more control, even though the sex will be less explosive and earth shattering.
When talking about a man selling his wild oats, this is what we mean. Getting enough of these sexy nymphs out of your system so you can enjoy a life raising a family with out the overt craving for the drug of the sexy chick.
Of course that caveat is for most men, with limited knowledge of game, and you can game these sexy nymphs the same way as just the hot chick; by learning how to mimic your actions with the non-sexy hot babe, with the sexy hot babe. After many successful applications, you will see this sexual dilemma disappear, and no chick manages to get you under her spell.
The downside to this, you lose the ability for mind blowing sex, or you still have the desire and keep seeking it out like an elusive white whale, never to satiate that jonesing that courses through your system. You find yourself chasing the dragon, in a never ending loop.
There are always consequences to our actions, and as much as game is important to development of men, there is also something greater that we can do, game is only the beginning of the journey, it’s the sword and shield given to you to traverse the underworld.