The manosphere… game… what to say of it lately? In my view it has gotten away from the key concepts of what game is, which is seduction, and is being filled up with discussions ad nauseum about what is beta and alpha and what it means and how it benefits you, and more common, straight on beta shaming – it has forgotten it’s ways of basic guide to get into a girls va-jay-jay, and become something more grandious – something a kin to formatting the masculine – which of course I contribute my fair share – but at times, this absence of pure seduction techniques, or methods, situations leads to an eventual circle jerk of chest thumping and alluding to one’s own massive alpha cred – while important to establish an alpha cred, being alpha is not the end all be all to being a master seducer, nor is being beta a sure fire way to land you in the dark realms of no-poonland. Any true Lothario knows he needs the bag of tricks of both spectrums to lay the pipe – and anyone who verbosely shuns beta-dom is perhaps in denial of the sometimes powerful traits of the beta. In the realm of game, this dichotomy is too black and white, and can lead a lot of men down the wrong path, lead them away from game, after their inability to adjust and calibrate. You will hear it here first, seducing women is not an exact science. What works for one man, may not work for you. Sure there are generalized truths as to what will work, however, with out experience one will not be able to understand the ways you need to employ such strategies that get her panties moist, and to get under that skirt.
For instance, did one know that being a cocky/funny isn’t the only way to respond to girls? Even American ones? Sure it may be the best most common and tried and trusted method, or the one with the highest rate of return – but if you aren’t a cocky bastard, and an introvert, you’ll have a harder time competing with say a wing man who is naturally cocky and funny – so should you also be cocky and funny? Or is it a better strategy to be aloof and indifferent, lost in thought? Mysterious? So many guys either don’t know how to be proper wings, or select proper wings, so they opt out of it and role Dolo – why? Because the competiveness of other guys make the guy who’s losing status try hard in order to gain upper hand – it’s an instinctual reaction, and any man who doesn’t have too much experience with girls will try and either show you up, or copy what you are doing – little do they realize the power of contrast does to girls minds which is when directly fed mystery and fantasy link up with the moisture farms in her poontang. Providing an alternative choice to a few girls does two things, one, it allows the girl to pick what turns her on, and stops you both from being blown out of the set.
You will be given a lot of advice on how to dress and behave, and there is a lot of validity on good and proper style, proper masculine traits and manerisms – but, if you’re game is tight, you can land a girl in a t shirt and jeans – these things are merely add on’s, will help your game, but like money, power, and good looks, unless you know how to use these to your advantage, they’re of little use other than getting looks, initial attraction, and some openings. It’s best not to put too much stock into it – as with game, it’s ultimatly meant that you don’t have to rely on those things. As you grow into your Don Juan persona, you will naturally try on different styles and methods – for the true player is the man who can play different parts, become different men, play any type of girl, be her socialite, lawyer, hipster, student, prude, wife, etc – if you’re goal is to be an ultimate seducer, you won’t care about how you look as a standard, you will find a look that suits your chamelean game – you will know how to adjust your game to the enviroment your in, the clothes you are wearing, and the targets of you man seed. Telling yourself a knife is the best weapon out there and you will go into any battle with it, is foolish if you’re in a gun fight. I feel we have moved into a certain narrow field, and it’s important to remember the fluidity of seduction.
Your game will always need to change, based on your target
This of course goes against the alpha model you are being told to follow. What this advice is aimed for is the recovering beta’s and the intermediate gamesmen. It is building your confidence with women, and your experience. I bet you can spot a PUA in the field where ever you go – I can almost guarantee you won’t be able to spot the master seducer in the field – he’s like a pussy ninja, swooping in from the shadows to covertly steal away a girl in a tidal wave of sultry passion – completely hidden from the public forum – his skills so good, so swift, so hidden, you wouldn’t even think the man is gaming a girl – but turn your head and they’ll be gone, like a puff of smoke, he’ll be somewhere between her moist legs.
The advice on all of our blogs in the manosphere are completely valid – however, I suspect many of you don’t necessarily want advice on how to sit, or keep your hands, but how to actually seduce women, and get to the end goal. Remember, the bang is the only thing that matters, it’s not how cool you were getting to it. In my world, there is no such thing as a walk of shame as a man – everything is fair in the game of seduction – nothing is sacred, not even the holy alpha mantra. So, let me ask my readers, and see if I can help certain concerns. What are your seduction issues. Where are you needing a refresher, or advice, or even a sounding board on your own game?
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