New Pussy Numbness

The more women you go through in the process of sowing your wild oats, or whether you plan on being a life long Don Juan, a playa till ya die sort of fella – the less interesting, the less connected, the less able you are to fully appreciate the beauty that is femininity and it’s pleasantness. The sad part is, in the west, there isn’t a whole lot of soft pleasant femininity around, so many guys are either forced or choose the life of pump and dumps, or others, blue pill poppers, who allow a girl to use him as a provider. It is rare, more rare in modern days than previous when you see two people, man and wife, that work, that accept each others roles, enhance each other, love each other, and most importantly have some investment and real commitment in each other. These people, couples, who are sadly the exception to the rule, are the only thing each should be searching for – but because of it’s rarity, and the ease of access to pussy, and to the lack of desire for most western women to be reserved, men and women stay in the mating game longer. Women hit the wall and cease to be attractive if they don’t marry the man she wants, whereas if a man doesn’t have game, looks, and/or money, he’ll resort to video games or computer programming. However, I’m here to talk about the player… the men who have good game, and use it to bang as many women as they can.

Banging women is one of the most pleasurable and fulfilling things a man can do, men have written a billion words about it, I’ve written about it, movies are made about it, tv shows, porn – people love banging. I would never suggest that men shouldn’t bang away… in fact just writing this is giving me the urge to bang a girl now, like right now…. hold on.

(1 hour later)… okay, what was I saying? Right, I believe I was getting to the downside of banging a plethora of babes. First off, however, we should make some guidelines here, we’re talking about numbers at least over 20. A man with a lesser number can still recount all his bangs with the familiarity of a overweight nerd recounting his early levels of his skyrim character. No we are talking about the tragedy that befalls all true Lotharios, the ones that stay players well into their 30’s and later on. That the pleasure, that the pure actual enjoyment of the women you are with, outside the total physical exaltation and enjoyment, wanes with every new experience. Once you hit the point of no return, the moment where the excitement and enjoyment of a girls sweet neurosis and apparent innocence, and wonder in and of your presence and giddiness, her silliness, her coyness, her immature humor, her supplication and submission, will all start to wane. Once you get your first experience of forgetting a girl you’ve banged, only recalled because of some other stimuli, and the number of those begins to increase, are you in trouble of losing your ability to connect or enjoy a girls company outside of just sex. Then you will become estranged from women, you will be able to seduce them, sure, but your zeal, you lust for it fouls, it becomes a book you had from childhood, or a toy you once loved – it only sparks the emotion of sentimentality, and a time and feeling from the past, not a real living experience. Each girl becomes less and less interesting, they begin to blend into one another – soon you begin to confuse different girls and different things you did with them, if you get into a relationship with one of them, you may even begin to tell a recalling story with her about how the two of you banged on the beach that summer, only to realize half way through the story that it wasn’t her at all, and someone else you’ve blended in with.

The tragedy with the banging chicks, even with the overwhelming physical pleasure especially when one is young, is that the other part, the part that made you want different girls, was that you got to also experience the new wonder, the new pleasure that it is to be with another girl, to learn, to have fun, to gain the total experience. At some point, your numbness overwhelms the urges. At some point you go through the motions, only to be doing things because you once believed in them with a furor. Only the past motivations are there, the present and future trapped behind a wall of denial and dissatisfaction.

The more you experience, and this goes for more than women, the less you will be able to enjoy. Your brain and soul build up a tolerance to new experiences. The double edge sword of living an exciting life, unbalanced, is that you need more and more and more and grander and more different in order to actually enjoy it like you once did again. Like anything else, you can over do it.

6 thoughts on “New Pussy Numbness

  1. I worked in the 70’s through 90’s with a man, a wise man. In his young years, he scored a lot.

    He once told me why he gave it up, and entered a stable marriage.

    He said his first lover, the honeymoon lasted maybe six months, then the ecstasy went away.

    The second lover, the honeymoon lasted only three months.

    The next, only half that long.

    It took a while, but it got down to the point the excitement lasted only as long as they were still banging the first time.

    At that point, he decided to marry and have a family.

  2. @Anonymous
    I agree, unfortunately the honeymoon only lasts until the first bang or two with me now. After that, all the excitement is gone. Even with a wonderful girl(Russian) ive been dating who is sweet, caring and giving. The “honeymoon” unfortunately was very short lived, lasting only a few days before I got bored.

    Not sure marriage is the solution though, that just sounds like an eternity of boredom to me at this point.

  3. “In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.” — Oscar Wilde

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