There is little to gain from waiting for more than three dates to have sex with a girl. Girls who make you wait for sex will turn you beta, no, more accurately you will be beta if you wait. Let’s say your with a girl and you’re bold enough to keep going for the fuck close, but she resists. After three dates and she still wants to go out, you only have two options
Option A, you respect her wishes and stop making a move. Now she still expects you to make a move when she wants it, but since you will never know when that is unless she tells you, killing the entire sexual interplay, you are no longer really making a move, you are submitting to her.
Option B, you keep making moves, and she keeps making you feel like a pervert for always wanting sex. At some point you may even start to believe it. When she finally submits, you will have earth shattering sex, but afterwards, you may still feel like she thinks your perverted. She’ll probably tell her friends this too.
Neither of these situations will put you in the right frame for her to fall for you, and both options, leave you basically submitting to her frame. She’ll resent you for both actions. The only win is option B, because you got to beat up her pussy. But it’s never fully gratifying, and both options leave you fighting for power in the relationship.
Letting women control the output of sex, is a losers gambit. If she doesn’t want to have sex with you by date 3, you’re wasting your time. She’s either playing you while she bangs/or is interested in someone else, or she’s a control freak.
There’s absolutely no reason for a girl these days to hold out on a guy she likes. Either you make your move early, and she gets ravaged, or you move on.
If you happen to be in this situation, and the girl gives you so much wood you can’t control it, remember this, if she’s even remotely interested in you, girls of equal or better looks will be too. Drop the bitch and get your dick wet in some willing participant.